Your Life, Your Choice

I was called upon to write about the blog that I read this morning...This week is quite a shocking days to me as I went through two persons in fb that undergrade Islam ..too bad for them , may Allah shed some light to them in search of the right path.

First Case..Makcik Hajjah Sitt Al-Wuzara

Can't believe what she's trying to say until today.She's definitely Malaysian...but never respect her own religion(if she is a Muslim)Insulting Islam as she had done mistake to be a Muslim. ..once the report has been lodged about her, I think her page has been closed down.


Second Case: Norhayati Kaprawi.

She claimed "I used to wear the hijab. I wore it when I was 14 and I took it off in my 30s. I wore it because at that time…from what I read, I said, this is what a Muslim girl or woman should do, [it was the] right thing to do…. But as the years went by, I felt something was not right, especially when I was 17 years old. I was already wearing tudung but a friend of mine did not wear the tudung. Almost every day boys [at a co-educational school] would put notes in her table insinuating she will go to hell for exposing her hair. She felt so pressured finally she wore [one]. It left her thinking: How come boys can do whatever they like, can wear whatever they like, yet they feel this higher ground, this higher moral authority to pressure girls?"

As for me, I believe..Faith towards Allah ..IMAN...there are 3 main elements , uttering it by words, agreeing it with your heart, and practicing it with actions...then, you fulfill the terms of Iman. We says Kalimah Shahadah 5 times per day in our daily pray, Believe that Allah is there, but never follow what Allah asks us to perform...that would not permit us to Iman...

Same goes to fasting, prayer etc..that is all our tasks as Muslim, if we don't do it, we'll do a sin, and reward for sins....is path to the hell...

Your Life, Your Choice....Wallahu a'lam.

My Resolution !!! will do!

This time....planning to breastfeed lil khalif until he is 2. Insyaallah .....but to some people, breastfeeding is not a good idea especially towards the end of your confinement period. Some babysitters, they prefer to give baby formula milk as it is easier and more comfortable for them to prepare. Nevertheless, this time....I have my maid at home to feed my baby so she cant say no to my breastmilk..heeeeeeee:D

Why breastmlik?

Many does not get ample information on breastmilk. I bet many have heard ..breast mlik is the best food for our child as it has essential nutrients that he needs.

But how nutritious it is?

ok..do you know that...

1) BM is a more easily digestible form of iron as compared to cow's milk, which allows up to 7-% of the iron to be absorbed compared to only 30% for cow's milk.

2) BM contains a higher content of lactose compared to formula milk.Lactose is an important source of energy and also for the development of the central nervous system.

3) BM contains more whey protein than casein compared to cow's milk, because whey protein is more easily digested than casein.

4) BM promotes the growth of good bacteria and inhibits the growth of harmful bacteria in child's intestine. Besides, breast milk is rich in antibodies which help the body to fight off infections, allergies and other illness.

According to paed:

Children who are breasfed are :

1)Less likely to suffer gastro -enterities symptoms like diarrhoea and vomitting during the first 3 months.(Agreed when I witnessed Widaad)

2) Less likely to suffer urine infections (Agreed)

3) Less likely to have asthma or wheezing disorders (Definitely)

4)Less likely to have insulin problems, high blood preassure or high cholestrol later in life.

Hoping The best ..

I has been almost 1 week since I have gone through symptoms of morning sickness. Too weird for me, even though I have two lil princess at home.

I never had all these when expecting before. It's kind of really new experience for me...I am just praying and hoping that this lil baby is fine and healthy. May good reasons lay behind all that happens..


Before..
1) I never feel losing my appetite while expecting
2) I have no problem to smell perfume (anything!)
3) No problem at all to cook or smell anything that is being cooked from kitchen
4) Never feel difficulty to breath at any time
5) Can go for a jog in evening
6) Going to office as usual with no hassle

After...
1) Nothing is tasty
2) Don't ever put anything/ANYONE with perfume close to me!
3) Can't even smell even neighbours are cooking:( too bad
4) Have this "difficulty of breathing" especially morning
5) No more morning, evening or night-walk..I rather rest on bed for optimum comfort
6) Problem..went to office, but too many distractions..I smell perfume etc

After all...what happen if I did go through these??What if you put perfume near to me?What is I smell someone's cooking?What if I take some morning -walk?? Dangggg!!!! lay and cry under my table as if having a severe gastritis..too painful!!!!(Allah knows better)



Hoping for the best..I did learn that the symptoms for every baby might change..and I hope that the little baby is healthy inside there without any problem..don't worry dear...Ummi will take care of you! and Allah is there for us dear..always:)

Love You Ya Allah..

Bismillahir Rahmannir Rahiimm..

Alhamdulillah ...
Alhamdulillah..
Alhamdulillahh....

Ya Allah, I love you more than anything/anyone I can possibly think of
I Can't stop praising You
For so many times You have given me so many chances in life
and that is so O can live for You Ya Allah
Only You know that my tears fall for You

How can I everr show my appreciation
For everything You have given me in life
I don't think my thank you for You is enough
At night I lay on my bed thinking and the tears start to fall
Not because I am tired on this world
but it is because I crave for You Ya Allah
I want you Ya Allah
I don't have anyone to turn but You
I don't have a diary because You are my diary
You not only know my past, present and future
and I know that everything happen for a good reason
because you are the Sustainer and the Most Merciful

Ya Allah, make my love for You the most beloved thing to me
Inspire me to strive for You each and everyday
I want to be popular with You Ya Allah
Keep me always to Your path
And keep those who try to harm me away from me
Ooo Allah, The Beneficient, The Loving, The Mighty, The All-Seeing, The All-Hearing and The All-Knowing
Help us to reach the highest level of perfection
Close the doors that will lead us to the wrong path
and open the doors that will lead us to the right path

Ooo the Compassionate
Give us the deepest passion and obsession of meeting You
give the rivers of tears in our eyes when we pray for You

Ooo Protector, Protect us from Syaitan and all evil
Protect us by sending down your angels to guard us
Send Your peace down to help the people of Palestine, Iraq and all around the world
Shut down the tears of every child and of every mother who are suffering

You are The Forgiver, So forgive us for our past, present and future
Ya Allah The Glorious, The Majestic, The Holy, The Peace The Sovereign Lord
I call upon Your Beautiful names to help
Let us not to go astray..and return the Muslims who have
Give us Your Peace, Joy and Happiness
and when we leave this life, save us from the flames of Hell
and open for us the doors to Your Beautiful garden of paradise

Ya Allah, I pray for the believers and non-believers
So accept my prayer and Du'a

Buku Pink Again!!!

Yes...alhamdulillah....

By the way, before starting with this new entry, I would like to apologise..since I promised to upload some pics in this blog.But then , end up..no pics for the trip to Umrah n Madinah.. really sorry for that... the only reason I can give u at the moment is ..."my morning sickness, perhaps!"..As I tried to upload, (you know that , we have to upload one by one, I have to browse through thousands pics inside my camera..and as I click 1 by 1...I felt like to throw out)so weird ek)!&#*(&%^#..ops...anyway! the Umrah n Ziarah pics are available in the my fb k!

Coming back to my pink book!

Yes, I am 8 weeks pregnant now.I started my pink book yesterday..went there at 830am and as usual..went back home at 12noon...so tiring...automatically, took an el for the day...

here's what i received for the lil khalif development..:)

This week, many changes take place in your baby, who now measures about 1.6cm. His embryonic tail is just about gone, and all his organs, muscles and nerves are beginning to function. In his brain, nerve cells are branching out to connect with one another, forming primitive neural pathways. Your baby's hands now bend at the wrist, and his feet are starting to lose their webbed appearance. His eyelids cover more of his eyes and tastebuds are forming on his tongue.

Your pregnancy is changing your figure as well. Your breasts may have grown large enough that you'll need bigger bras with better support than your old ones. You may notice your waistline expanding as well, forcing you to pack away your favourite jeans until next year.

:):) Lil Khalif, can't wait to meet you!!! You are there in my womb two months d!! Happy staying inside...ummi, walid n your 2 "big" sis are patiently waiting for you dear!

Mekah for umrah

We stayed in Mekah for another 7 days.....best!!! that's the only word I can say at the moment...hopefully, there is another trip for me to visit this Haram land in future..amiin!!!

From Madinah with love:)

We arrived in Madinah on 1st Mac 2011 and stayed there for 7 days...Waited so long to visit Makam Rasul:) Sooooooooo excited to share these pics from the day we take off from Malaysia..