I waited three days to write for this entry. Three days, so that I am more rational, and not as angry as I was three days ago...But, today..when I started writing, both my hands become cold, and all my feeling mixed up!!
The story begins..
As usual, I'll pick up Widaad and Wafa' after hubby ended his class, 6pm on Monday. We will straight away fetch them up and as soon as possible, prepare dinner so that they could sleep early. My two little princess would sleep early, since they did not had enough sleep in the baby sitter's house (due to there are 4 kids there, they tend to play rather than sleep). Hubby also need to take his dinner early since he is going for respective kuliah. ..that would be our routine...But, this is not my point..
But, that day..I was so surprised, shocked, angry and sad...seeing my little Widaad's eye...bruises, bashes, discoloration and reddish!!Astaqfirullah hal a’zeem…I asked Kak Nah(the baby sitter,) and she answered, “ ye ke..akak tak perasan pun” There goes my blood pressure!!!She did not noticed a very obvious thing like this!!!!!!!
I was very angry, but don’t even have any idea whether to raise my voice to her..
Positive thinking: Supposedly, she could not observe my little baby at all times. There are times she need to cook, shower the others, and even went to toilet!
Negative thinking: TAKKAN LA KO TAK PERASAN…MATA ANAK AKU DAH MERAH.. BENGKAK CAMTU!!!!
To some people, you might think this is a norm to those send babies to babysitter, yea…they might not take EXTRA care of the babies like we, the parents do. Some people might also think that, kids always fight, and when they fight, we predict they will be hurt by those who is stronger….
Hey..What if.. she is your baby? Or.. maybe you don't have any baby, and doesn't feel the mother instinct to talk about this issue.
To me…this is too much!And I really can’t take it..before this, there was once, Widaad left eye was smashed by glass, nearly the glass went into her eyes. Very near!!!And the scar can still be seen until today. And guess what? It happened at the baby sitter’s house jugak. And now, her right eye..Should I still say NEVER MIND?
And I am really hurt when Widaad said, "Ummi...akit".."akit Ummi"
Ouhh..Allahu Akbar..Ooo God…make me strong…give me strength..give me faith..
assalamualaikum azah
ReplyDeleteye k syqiin tahu
k syiqin pun memang geram
sabar ye azah... yang penting sekarang
azah pegi jumpa doc dulu
bukan ape, sebab kita tak tahu kan luka tu sebab apa
just takut ade bakteria ke ape ke kan... nanah ke
pegi jumpa doc dulu... safer insya Allah
lepas tu kan... rasenye kan... hehe azah kene bertegas siket kot dengan baby sitter tu
jangan terlampau baik sangka
cuba azah strict siket
tapi dengan cara yang baik
1cthnye: azah n suami amik siket masa, jumpa k nah tu, cakaP: kak, boleh tak kami nak duduk bincang siket dengan akak pasal anak kami ni [nampak macam professional and full with respect]
diskas concern azah pasal anak azah tu
cakap dengan dia betapa azah percaya untuk memberi amanah pada dia utk menjaga anak-anak sewaktu azah takde
tapi untuk siapa aje yang dipertanggungjawabkan utk menjaga mereka
so, better cari someone yang lebih bertanggungjawab
tapi, sebelum buat keputusan untuk pindahkan anak2 ke tpt lain, solat istikharah dulu
ini hanya cadangan k syiqin, mungkin bukan jalan terbaik utk masalah azah
diskas dengan suami azah baik2
maybe minta jugak pandangan mak ayah
apapun, azah sentiasa ada k syiqin untuk cerita apa saje. k syiqin doakan yang terbaik untuk azah n famili .k syiqin pun sangat terkejut bila nana cakap pasal anak azah]
Tukar pengasuh je azah, kita bukan marahkan sebab anak kita luka, tapi marah sebab dia "tak perasan", kan?
ReplyDeleteAnak ..bukan senang nak mengandungkan dia...kalau boleh, semuanya kita nak beri yang terbaik untuk khalifah kecil kita
Kalau orang cakap "BIASALAH KALAU TINGGALKAN ANAK DGN ORG LAIN, BUKAN SAMA MCM KITA JAGA"...ini dah bukan biasa.You should take action.Jgn tunggu lagi, sampai jadi benda lain pulak. Azah sendiri cakap, ni bukan kali pertama, ni dah kali kedua.
Kak Syiqin --> terima kasih:) fikiran saya sgt bercelaru at the moment. Thank you for the advice
ReplyDeleteAnonymous --> ya btul...mother instinct:) we are mothers, so know, we feel hurt when our kids are hurt.
Below are response to friends who send ym and came to my office to talk personally abou this. Thanks yea..really appreciate your concern!
ReplyDeleteLinda...thanks for the advice.Will discuss with hubby to relocate Widaad and Wafa'..yea true, we want to find the most trusted and responsible person to take care of baby.
Kak Hernie and Nana : Thanks..will go to clinic today at 4. (Just now pegi lunch hour, clinic tutup)
Kak Yati : Thanks for the advice.
Kalo aku pon aku tukar pengasuh... biar pengasuh yang la ni tu tau sikit kata kita tak pueh hati dengan dia. Anak orang jangan buat halai-balai. Jangan lupa bawa pi jumpa doc, takut ada jangkitan bacteria mcm k syqiin ckp tuh...
ReplyDeletelong : thanks..aku baru pas tidokan Widaad. Dia dok nangis, bekas luka tu dah kering, naik kuping..dia nak garu, aku dok pujuk jgn garu.tp bila dia tenyeh je tangan kat mata dia, berdarah balik..lagi dia nangis kuat..aku sedey la long..anak aku tu long...
ReplyDeleteCiannye Widaad. Kite br try2 anta Emil kat nursery kat office. Huhu.
ReplyDeleteMy : yea...this is her second time luka kat mata:( (masih lagi bersedih)
ReplyDeleteEh, Emil dah ada gigi eh?:) so cuteeee...