Ada yang mengeluh, mengapalah anak-anak mereka terlampau aktif dan 'kreatif'...macam-macam idea dan hal yang dilakukan. Hilang kesabaran kadang-kadangnya. Tertanya di hati, salah ke aku ini? Tak pandai ke aku ini?
Lagi lagi bila kita bicarakan tentang tanggungjawab mendidik. Bukan sekadar beri makan dan pakai sahaja. Kita perlu pacakkan tiang agama yang teguh pada mereka sedari kecil. Kenapa agama? Sebab agama itu sgt syumul , sangat sempurna didikan untuk seseorang. Itulah manual kehidupan kita. Bahkan rasul sendiri ajarkan kita bagaimana cara mendampingi anak-anak sesuai dengan umur mereka.
Bagi ibu bapa yang mempunyai anak-anak yang kadang-kadang atau selalu 'out of control', tariklah nafas panjang-panjang. Jika ada yang boleh diperbetulkan di dalam diri, cari dan betulkanlah. Jika tidak terjumpa lagi...bawalah bersabar. Terlalu pendek masa anak-anak ini kecil...soon they will be big boys and girl...and they will remember how patience you have been raising them...that is the love and respect that will stay in them for the rest of their life.Kenakalan mereka semasa kecil , akan menjadi pengubat rindu anda kepada mereka bila sudah berjauhan nanti. Dan anda akan tersenyum mengingatkannya.
Terutamanya untuk parents yang mempunyai anak yang ramai.Tentu penat melayan setaip karenah anak yang berbeza. Tekadang boleh tinggi suara dan akhirnya ada anak yang dikenakan "physical treatment".Setiap mereka sebenarnya mahukan layanan dan perhatian anda.Mereka cuba ambil bukan sedikit, malah semua masa anda jika boleh diluangkan bersama mereka. ..They just want to feel your loves! yours!
Jadi, mari jadi ibu bapa yang bijak, buat aktiviti yang boleh diingati oleh anak2 anda. Because they easily remember what you did. I bet you don't want them to remember those harsh things you have done to them.Make them proud that you have been so patient to raise them up.They'll surely remember that, as you remember you and your mom's experiences when you were kids.
To all mother's in the world...especially to my mak..Siti Hajar bt Abdullah.. at Kulim, YOU ARE MY NUMBER ONE!!
i was a foolish little child
crazy things i used to do
and all the pain i put you through
mama now i'm here for you
for all the times i made you cry
the days i told you lies
now it's time for you to rise
for all the things you sacrificed
oh, if i could turn back time rewind
if i could make it undone
i swear that i would
i would make it up to you
mum i'm all grown up now
it's a brand new day
i'd like to put a smile on your face every day
mum i'm all grown up now
and it's not too late
i'd like to put a smile on your face every day
and now i finally understand
your famous line
about the day i'd face in time
'cause now i've got a child of mine
and even though i was so bad
i've learned so much from you
now i'm trying to do it too
love my kid the way you do
oh, if i could turn back time rewind
if i could make it undone
i swear that i would
i would make it up to you
oh, if i could turn back time rewind
if i could make it undone
i swear that i would
i would make it up to you
mum i'm all grown up now
it's a brand new day
i'd like to put a smile on your face every day
mum i'm all grown up now
and it's not too late
i'd like to put a smile on your face every day
you know you are the number one for me
you know you are the number one for me
you know you are the number one for me
oh, oh, number one for me
you know you are the number one for me
you know you are the number one for me
you know you are the number one for me
oh, oh, number one for me
there's no one in this world that can take your place
oh, i'm sorry for ever taking you for granted, ooh
i will use every chance i get
to make you smile, whenever i'm around you
now i will try to love you like you love me
only god knows how much you mean to me
oh, if i could turn back time rewind
if i could make it undone
i swear that i would
i would make it up to you
mum i'm all grown up now
it's a brand new day
i'd like to put a smile on your face every day
mum i'm all grown up now
and it's not too late
i'd like to put a smile on your face every day
p/s: balik rumah cuba senyum je...ala-ala "senyum tak perlu kata apa-apa" untuk aper aje "cute" things that our kids do!you 'll find the excitement , the feel of getting real!
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