Checklist 4 years old- 4 years, 1 week old Widaad:
1) Boleh nyanyi/kenal /tulis ABC to Z - tulis sampai I ja dia passed..yang lain dah jadi ekor buaya!
2) Boleh nyanyi /kenal / tulis 1, 2, 3 to 10 - tulis sampai no 4 jek
3) Boleh nyanyi/ tulis Wahid, Isnani , Salaasah... to A'syara (first 10 numbers in Arabic)
4) Boleh nyanyi / kenal / tulis alif , ba' , ta' to Ya' ( Arabic consonant) - tulis alif je.. ba' dah senget
5) Boleh sebut 25 nama nabi
6) Boleh sebut 12 bulan dalam islam
7) Boleh recite Shahadah
8) Boleh recite selawat
9) Boleh recite Al- Fatihah
10) Boleh recite Ayat Qursy
11) Boleh recite Surah An Insyirah
12) Boleh recite Doa Ifititah
13) Boleh recite Surah al-Asr (sekali dengan terjemahan)
14) Boleh recite Allahumaftah alaina..til the end
15) Boleh recite Rabbisys rahli... til the end
16) Boleh baca Doa sebelum dan selepas makan
17) Boleh baca Doa sebelum dan bangun tidur
18) Boleh baca Doa masuk/ keluar toilet
19) Boleh baca doa keluar rumah
20) Boleh baca doa pakai/ tanggalkan baju
21) Boleh baca doa habis belajar
Done !! Good job kakak!! Pasni habiskan baca iqra' ..sikit lagi, then boleh sambung baca quran plak. Hopefully kakak dapat tunaikan permintaan Ummi nak tengok kakak khatam quran by 6 years old yeah!!
'Take parenting seriously but be playful and joyful as you carry this wonderful responsibility. You will find it fulfilling, meaningful and successful in raising your children.'
Bagi seorang anak kecil, ibu bapanya adalah segala-galanya. Apa kepercayaan ibu bapa terhadapnya, itulah yang dia percaya mengenai dirinya. Maksud percaya di sini, ialah apa yang terdetik di hati kita mengenai anak kita itu boleh dirasai olehnya
Jika kita merasakan dia sangat istimewa untuk anda, maka dia akan membesar dengan penuh keyakinan diri. Tetapi jika di hati anda ada meras...akan bahawa dia adalah a nuisance, maka dia akan ditawan oleh keraguan diri.
Dalam membesarkan anak-anak pelbagai cubaan datang melanda. Bila anak-anak mengikut cakap, hati kita berbunga. Bila anak-anak melakukan yang disebaliknya, hati mana yang tidak duka. Namun, teruskan berdoa. Anak-anak kita itu juga perlu belajar daripada liku-liku hidup mereka.
Anda perlu ambil kembali kepimpinan anak-anak itu dan bimbing mereka dan berhenti menunaikan permintaan mereka. Namun, lakukan semua itu dengan penuh hormat dan kasih-sayang kepada mereka. Sekiranya anda tidak mahu menunaikan permintaan mereka yang tidak baik itu, jelaskan dengan penuh kasih-sayang sehingga mereka faham.
Sayangkan anak tidak bermaksud kita perlu mengikut semua kemahuannya. Sebagai ibu bapa kita perlu meletakkan garis panduan yang jelas untuk mereka ikut. Bila mereka melanggar garis-panduan itu, maka kita perlu tegas melaksanakan natijah daripada perbuatan itu. Inilah yang disebut ' Tough Love'. Semoga Allah memberi kekuatan kepada kita melaksanakan tugasan kita dengan baik.- Prof Rozieta Shaary
Play is often talked as it were a relief from a serious learning. But for children play is a serious learning.Play is really the work of childhood - Fred Rogers
Masa tgh titik polkadot ni ada pengacau pengacau yang buat cobaan meng'dot'kan apam ni juga... jadi end up...."Comot macam widaad"
Walaupun rupa tak lawa mana, but yes....sedappp....:) nama original "APAM POLKADOT" ..tapi cannot be called apam polkadot kot...sebab takde rupa pon...eheheeh..
Huruf memula ok lagi......bila towards the end..pengacau buat hal lagi....yes.....jadi huruf pun tonggang terbalik!
And that evening, Widaad requested "BIG CAKE" for her to cut into slices....nak bagi to neighbours...:)
And we made it! Chocolate cake for her birthday! lilin beli kat Italy ...magic lighting candle:)
We were happy ..even though apam and cake comot...but the happiness we went through until the fnishing line...:) and, this is my first attempt making cake and apam with the two princess! they are sooooooooooooo eager to learn baking !!:)
Happy Birthday Kakak....moga membesar menjadi anak solehah ! :)
Membesarkan anak-anak bukan suatu perkara yang senang dan ringan. Banyak kesabaran dan pengorbanan yang perlu dilakukan.
Ada yang mengeluh, mengapalah anak-anak mereka terlampau aktif dan 'kreatif'...macam-macam idea dan hal yang dilakukan. Hilang kesabaran kadang-kadangnya. Tertanya di hati, salah ke aku ini? Tak pandai ke aku ini?
Lagi lagi bila kita bicarakan tentang tanggungjawab mendidik. Bukan sekadar beri makan dan pakai sahaja. Kita perlu pacakkan tiang agama yang teguh pada mereka sedari kecil. Kenapa agama? Sebab agama itu sgt syumul , sangat sempurna didikan untuk seseorang. Itulah manual kehidupan kita. Bahkan rasul sendiri ajarkan kita bagaimana cara mendampingi anak-anak sesuai dengan umur mereka.
Bagi ibu bapa yang mempunyai anak-anak yang kadang-kadang atau selalu 'out of control', tariklah nafas panjang-panjang. Jika ada yang boleh diperbetulkan di dalam diri, cari dan betulkanlah. Jika tidak terjumpa lagi...bawalah bersabar. Terlalu pendek masa anak-anak ini kecil...soon they will be big boys and girl...and they will remember how patience you have been raising them...that is the love and respect that will stay in them for the rest of their life.Kenakalan mereka semasa kecil , akan menjadi pengubat rindu anda kepada mereka bila sudah berjauhan nanti. Dan anda akan tersenyum mengingatkannya.
Terutamanya untuk parents yang mempunyai anak yang ramai.Tentu penat melayan setaip karenah anak yang berbeza. Tekadang boleh tinggi suara dan akhirnya ada anak yang dikenakan "physical treatment".Setiap mereka sebenarnya mahukan layanan dan perhatian anda.Mereka cuba ambil bukan sedikit, malah semua masa anda jika boleh diluangkan bersama mereka. ..They just want to feel your loves! yours!
Jadi, mari jadi ibu bapa yang bijak, buat aktiviti yang boleh diingati oleh anak2 anda. Because they easily remember what you did. I bet you don't want them to remember those harsh things you have done to them.Make them proud that you have been so patient to raise them up.They'll surely remember that, as you remember you and your mom's experiences when you were kids.
To all mother's in the world...especially to my mak..Siti Hajar bt Abdullah.. at Kulim, YOU ARE MY NUMBER ONE!!
i was a foolish little child
crazy things i used to do
and all the pain i put you through
mama now i'm here for you
for all the times i made you cry
the days i told you lies
now it's time for you to rise
for all the things you sacrificed
oh, if i could turn back time rewind
if i could make it undone
i swear that i would
i would make it up to you
mum i'm all grown up now
it's a brand new day
i'd like to put a smile on your face every day
mum i'm all grown up now
and it's not too late
i'd like to put a smile on your face every day
and now i finally understand
your famous line
about the day i'd face in time
'cause now i've got a child of mine
and even though i was so bad
i've learned so much from you
now i'm trying to do it too
love my kid the way you do
oh, if i could turn back time rewind
if i could make it undone
i swear that i would
i would make it up to you
oh, if i could turn back time rewind
if i could make it undone
i swear that i would
i would make it up to you
mum i'm all grown up now
it's a brand new day
i'd like to put a smile on your face every day
mum i'm all grown up now
and it's not too late
i'd like to put a smile on your face every day
you know you are the number one for me
you know you are the number one for me
you know you are the number one for me
oh, oh, number one for me
you know you are the number one for me
you know you are the number one for me
you know you are the number one for me
oh, oh, number one for me
there's no one in this world that can take your place
oh, i'm sorry for ever taking you for granted, ooh
i will use every chance i get
to make you smile, whenever i'm around you
now i will try to love you like you love me
only god knows how much you mean to me
oh, if i could turn back time rewind
if i could make it undone
i swear that i would
i would make it up to you
mum i'm all grown up now
it's a brand new day
i'd like to put a smile on your face every day
mum i'm all grown up now
and it's not too late
i'd like to put a smile on your face every day
p/s: balik rumah cuba senyum je...ala-ala "senyum tak perlu kata apa-apa" untuk aper aje "cute" things that our kids do!you 'll find the excitement , the feel of getting real!
Widaad Ibtisam, she's 4 yrs old next month.....What more can you expect? Being around a three year old isn't always a comedy routine.
Despite her cuteness behaviors, confronting different mimics, tantrums, non-stop action, or other patience-testers,will wear me down , undeniably.. But, they are all our obligations to mold her, to be the best muslimah for the ever-challenging life, to get herself ready for future tests.
What I always do is to try breathe in deeply and count to five, hold breath for a count of seven, and then slowly exhale for a count of eight....then of course recite fatihah and some surah. Just one way of me to gradually calm myself. (Not more rested, but at least calmer!) ..but one thing, see the cute side of it may also helps:)
Amal Wafa'... another 2 months going to be 3 years old.
She....to describe her.. I would say...ACTIVE!!! she will make anything around her to be her playmates.anything you just give her !!
This is her ONLY relax time. ..when she sleeps:) others ..she'll jump, hop around, play and explore everything! wowwww little scientist:)
She still admit she's small, and we shall adress her "adik". like what we used to adress her before...and call little Jawwad "Hubayb". Perasan kecik la tu :p
Little Jawwad ..another 2 days will be 8 months:) and he has two cute white teeth!
Tadaa......here come the session of Oouch!!Auwww!!! adoi!!! mak aiii!!! SAKIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Breastfeeding is so challenging nowadays!
He is beginning to take notice of and copy people’s moods. He might even show the first stirrings of empathy. If he sees someone crying, he may start whimpering too. And even though he's just beginning to learn about his emotions, he's picking things up from people around him:) Comelll sgt:)
