More pictures on the open day!

Widaad and Ummi



Goyang la gambar ni Shime...


Staff on duty ...:)

hik hik hik...this pictures were taken by Shime:) since then I realised that I did not upload any pics about OPEN DAY at the entry before, just focused what my two little princess were doing at CLC.

Widaad had her lunch with me at the food court next to exam hall. We both ate the tomato rice together , 1/2 for me and half for Widaad...But then, Widaad ate half of her portion and another portion went on the floor (that's what happen if she insisted to eat by herself)..

Ops..forget to tell you guys, we won the runner up prize for best booth decoration! Well Done CDP!!!

She finally has teeth!!!

Ops...Walid interframe skit kat blkg...


While turning back to home after fetching up the two princess, adik cried. It is a common incident,and we already get used of it.Whenever she looked at me after very long hours separated, she will ask for breastfeeding...and opsss!finally, I realised ...she now has teeth!! three teeth!!! No wonder I felt something bitting me!!!!

Teething for Widaad started around month 8, but Adik sprout her first white caps at 7 months of age.It's cute, two middle teeth on the bottom and another tooth at the middle top!! And there are gaps between those pearly whites....:) (not to alarm, I learnt spaces commonly disappear by age 3, after all baby teeth have broken through)

Once Wafa' starts teething, I am now expecting more drooling and experimenting with sounds — even WIdaad did it too, since she had to adjust to having strange new things in her mouth:) What a good experiment heh...

At age of 7 months, she's now showing another development signs, separation anxiety. Far from being is a cause for concern, stranger anxiety is a sign of a baby's growing understanding of the world around her.

Earlier, when I left the room, she was hardly phased. Now she knows that I am away and she's able to picture and miss her umi , (perhaps) — and may begin to cry as soon as Iam out of her sight...even I went for a toilet!!! ohooo...I am not afraid if I left her since I know she is on my safe floor covered by a comforter, but then worried if Widaad is going to comfort her by her own way..(she's trying to be a good sister anyway..but..errr!!)

Haa...another changes I realised in herself.. Wafa' has been sleeping soundly through the night, but ,she may now wake up periodically if she's experiencing separation anxiety...And, last night, she woke up at 3 just to lay on my abdoment and play with my eyes, nose, ears...Wafa'!!!! Umi has class at 8am tomorrow!!!!!!!

off to senawang..kenduri kawen ustaz saed

adik dapat shoulder yang empuk utk tido...Zzzzz..


Widaad...awal2 lagi dah cabut getah rambut...


Congratulations:) Welcome to the club!


On de way back, adik dah tak senang dudukk.....nak sleep yer...


ok, go to Kakak..


Adik ....look at her face..mmg very sleepy dah..


gurau senda ngan kakak first before sleep


:)



the best baby sitter cum cameraman...semua shot cantik2


ok adik sayang, sleep well



Saturday with Open day ....So, Sunday ...drove off to Senawang for a wedding ceremony...Congratulations Ustaz Saed and wife (if I'm not mistaken, hubby's junior)...

Luckily, we have Padil and Zul as companions a.k.a baby sitter cum cameraman..ngeh ngeh ngeh..by the way, thanks for the wonderful brunch guys!

on duty open day!

aik....ni baloon open day ke.... ngeh ngeh ngeh


No idea why Wafa' posing camni...


This is supposedly the earlier pic, I had already ikat rambut Widaad cantik2...


Mcm participant lak...


Wafa' dah ade gaya ngantuk nihh..


who gave Widaad air ni?thanks ek...


:)


baru satu thn 7 bulan dah masuk university!!



here she is...my little princess..sleeping...


ZZZzzzzz....


20 March....MMU Open day this time was really good. This time, people crowded into the exam hall...Luckily, CDP booth was close to the main air-cond, and we conquered it!!

I was on duty for the evening session.Nevertheless, evening session started at 11am!!hahaha...and ended at 5pm!!!

Once I told hubby bout my duty, he was ok...So,in the morning,earlier I shower Widaad (Wafa' was still on bed), clean up the house, prepared breakfast, and most importantly , mop the floor....Wafa' is now very good at crawling....so I have to take my extra steps for her , for my little precious gift!!

When hubby sent me to MMU, then only he told me that, he actually had to attend "Simposium Mahasiswa" at CLC...huhuuu..and hubby told me he had to attend as a VIP!! mak aiiii.....nape tak ckp siang2....

Hubby volunteer to take care of the two babies...Me, of course I am not worried since the participants for the Simposium were mostly familiar to me....

Anyway, thanks to hubby, and those who cheer up my two babies...They even took pics of my Widaad and Wafa'...but, most of the time, Wafa' fell asleep...So, Widaad je la yang dok posing...

Again...balik kampung!!

Sleep well, tomorrow gonna meet Tokyang and TokWan


Happy always klu balik kampung


The food tester..


Mana Tokyang niii....


Anak Walid..

This is the third times in a month we went back to Kedah..Woww....8 hours journey seems to be like 8 minutes (Hubby: mana taknya...tido jer ..tup2 dah sampai:D )

This time, we went home for kenduri Akekah.Yuslinda and Najib agreed to make it as soon as possoble since they have keep aside the money since Arwah Amjad was still in womb..So we just made it...

Hubby is the chef for the day..He cooked Nasi Beriani, Kurma Kambing (the akekah), Ayam Masak Merah, and Dalca....ermmm...delicious!!I am the chef helper a.k.a food tester!!

Alhamdulillah....everything went smoothly as what had been planned. We have some tazkirah before Kenduri Arwah that night, followed by Tahlil...and all the villagers were invited to our house.

Before we went back to Melaka, hubby had taken the opportunity to be the Imam in the Subuh prayer and deliver kuliah Subuh in our mosque...:)

Mengatasi Masalah Anak-Anak Yang Nakal, Degil Dan Suka Melawan Cakap Ibu Bapa

Quoted from : http://www.darussyifa.org/

Oleh: Ibnuumar Asseluluni

Secara fitrahnya semua ibu bapa mahukan anak-anak yang menghormati ibu bapa, mentaati hukum agama, sentiasa menjauhi maksiat serta tidak terjebak dengan gejala sosial.

Pengalaman penulis di Darussyifa’ sering bertemu dengan ibu bapa yang mengadu tentang anak-anak mereka yang terjebak dengan gejala sosial seperti anak-anak yang lari dari rumah, bergaul dengan remaja yang rosak akhlak, berzina, menagih dadah, melawan ibu-bapa, kasar serta biadab dengan ibu bapa dan seumpamanya.

Ibu bapa yang datang ke Darussyifa’ ini meminta perawat mengikhtiarkan sesuatu supaya anak-anak mereka boleh dipulihkan. Di antara yang biasa dilakukan oleh perawat ialah;

Kaedah Pertama:

Membaca doa-doa tertentu pada air seperti Surah al-Fatihah, Doa Pelembut Hati (Surah Taha ayat 1 hingga 5), Selawat Syifa’, Selawat Tafrijiyah, Doa Menghindar Maksiat (Surah al-Mu’min ayat 3) dan beberapa doa-doa yang lain. Air yang telah dibacakan dengan doa ini diberi minum kepada anak-anak yang bermasalah ini juga dibuat bilasan mandi.

Kaedah Kedua:

Satu lagi ikhtiar yang sangat mujarab bagi mengatasi anak-anak yang suka melawan ibu-bapa ialah dengan memberi minum mandikan anak-anak ini dengan air tadahan lebihan wuduk ibu-bapa. Caranya seperti berikut;

1. Ibu dan bapa terlebih dahulu membersihkan semua anggota wuduk dengan sabun. Anggota-anggota wuduk ini termasuk yang rukun dan sunat iaitu mulut, hidung, muka, kedua tangan, kepala, kedua-dua telinga dan kaki hingga buku lali.

2. Setelah dibersihkan anggota-anggota wuduk tersebut, gunakan air biasa minuman atau air mineral untuk mengambil wuduk.

3. Cara yang mudah, duduk di atas kerusi dan letakkan baldi di bahagian antara kedua belah kaki. Biar isteri tolong menuangkan air untuk mengambil wuduk.

4. Membasuh semua anggota wuduk tiga kali. Mulakan dengan membaca bismillah. Basuh kedua belah tapak tangan diikuti dengan berkumur-kumur, membersihkan hidung. Pastikan air yang telah digunakan untuk membasuh tapak tangan dan berkumur-kumur masuk ke dalam baldi.

5. Berniat mengambil wuduk diikuti membasuh muka, seterusnya membasuh kedua tangan hingga ke siku, menyapu sedikit air di bahagian kepala, membasuh telinga dan akhir sekali membasuh kedua belah kaki hingga ke buku lali.

6. Setelah suami selesai, isteri pula mengambil wuduk dengan cara yang sama manakala suami pula yang membantu menuangkan air.

7. Setelah selesai, air lebihan wuduk yang terkumpul di dalam baldi tersebut dicampurkan dengan air biasa.

8. Beri minum air tersebut kepada Mandikan anak-anak yang bermasalah dengan air tersebut. Insya’Allah dia akan menjadi anak yang patuh kepada kedua ibu-bapanya.


Pencegahan Awal

Daripada pengamatan penulis serta kajian yang telah dibuat, lebih 90% ibu-bapa yang datang mengadu anak mereka bermasalah, apabila diperdengarkan doa berikut, mereka kata tidak pernah pun mendengar doa ini. Doa tersebut seperti berikut;

"Allahumma Jannib nasy syaitona Wa Jannibbisy Syaitonna Ma Rozakhtana"

Terjemahannya:
" Ya Allah, jauhkan syaitan daripada kami dan jauhkan syaitan daripada anak yang akan Engkau anugerahkan kepada kami."

Anyone knows what doa is this?Credit to yourself:) keep up the good job!!

At last...

Now..his appetite is neutral again:)

Huhhh..at last..Alhamdulillah..Hubby's health is getting better. I am so worried not really because he has fever( he is a big guy now, no worries lah kan), but then much worry of his weight loss.

Hubby, is a guy who easily lost weight when he has fever. Last two weeks, he had fever, and he lost 2kgs!! That easy...and this week, it happens again..and I am sooooooooo worried. Worried if people would ask me all these scary questions..

1) Why is Najib so thin now?
2) Do you cook at home?
3) Do you take care of him or not?
4) Did you ask him to do lots of housework?
5) Why is he getting thinner and you....?

Ohoooo.....STOPPPP!!

Hubby is the person who easily loss his weight especially when he forgotten, skip (because of buzy) from his meals.. And if he is having fever, whatever you cook, buy or prepared, if he think he wouldnt want to touch eat, he won't. Dont force him, it wouldn't work at all!!

When we were married, he was 56 kgs. And ..after almost three years getting married, he is now...46 kgs.Hey!Don't blame me ok.......It wasn't my fault!!!

I am ...so afraid now to ask him to step on a scale ....after 3 three days suffering his fever, what would be his weight. Last two weeks, right after he is fever-free, he was 44kgs. And now???

I dont know...

You Came To Me

Addicted to this song...sang by Sami Yusoff dedicated with love to Rasulullah s.a.w...Very nice song.....very touching...in fact, the song is in this b log as well....try to, listen and feel it..:)


You came to me in that hour of need
When I was so lost, so lonely
You came to me took my breath away
Showed me the right way, the way to lead

You filled my heart with love
Showed me the light above
Now all I want Is to be with you

You are my one true love
Taught me to never judge
Now all I want Is to be with you

CHORUS (x2): ALLAHUMA! Sal 'ala Sayideena Mustafa
'Alaa Habeebika Nabieeka Mustafa
(O God! Send Your Blessings upon our leader, the chosen one (Muhammad (peace upon him))
Upon Your Beloved, Your Prophet, the chosen one)

You came to me in a time of despair
I called on you, you were there
Without You what would my life mean?
To not know the unseen, the worlds between

For you I'd sacrifice
For you I'd give my life
Anything, just to be with you

I feel so lost at times
By all the hurt and lies
Now all I want Is to be with you

CHORUS (x2)

Showed right from wrong
Taught me to be strong
Need you more than ever
Ya Rasul ALLAH (O Messenger of God (Muhammad (peace be upon him))

You came to me
In that hour of need
Need you more than ever
Ya Rasul ALLAH

You filled my heart with love
Showed me the light above
Now all I want is to be with you

You are my one true love
Taught me to never judge
Now all I want Is to be with you

----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
AL MUA'LLIM

We once had a Teacher
The Teacher of teachers,
He changed the world for the better
And made us better creatures,
Oh Allah we’ve shamed ourselves
We’ve strayed from Al-Mu’allim,
Surely we’ve wronged ourselves
What will we say in front him?
Oh Mu’allim…
He was Muhammad salla Allah alayhi wa sallam,
Muhammad, mercy upon Mankind,
Teacher of all Mankind

He prayed while others slept
While other ate he'd fast,
While they would laugh he wept
Until he breathed his last,
His only wish was for us to be
Among the ones who prosper,
Ya Mu'allim peace be upon you,
Truly you are our Teacher,
Oh Mu'allim...

He taught us to be just and kind
And to feed the poor and hungry,
Help the wayfarer and the orphan child
And to not be cruel and miserly,
His speech was soft and gentle,
Like a mother stroking her child,
His mercy and compassion,
Were most radiant when he smiled

Sekadar Seketika.

INNA LILLAHI WA INNA ILAIHI RAA JIUU'N

WAN AMJAD WAFI B. WAN NAJIB

telah kembali ke rahmatullah
pada
1 MAC 2010



Alhamdulillah...Syurga yang nan abadi menanti di sana..Alhamdulillah...


Alhamdulillah....Allah pinjamkan selama 5 hari untuk diberi kasih sayang...Alhamdulillah..


Alhamdulillah...diberi kelebihan untk memberi syafaat kepada kedua ibu bapanya di akhirat nanti...Alhamdulillah...


Moga Allah berikan kekuatan dan ketenangan pada Wan Najib dan Yuslinda...
Ameennnn



WE ARE OFF...Back to hometown..

24/02/2010

A day before birthday of Prophet Muhammad s.a.w , here comes another baby in our family....Wan Amjad Wafi:) very cute, like his name.A good day for him to be borned, a day before Maulidur Rasul..

Unfortunately, like what everyone have been mentioned earlier, it has been predicted, that the test from the Almighty to us this time is the level of health of Wan Amjad Wafi.

He may look very healthy and sturdy, but deep inside, Allah knows better. Amjad, was warded into NICU for his heart problem as soon as he delivered. Nevertheless, he was discharged home a day after that...

There is an option for a surgical procedure, but for government servants like my brother and sister in law, the only place they can send Amjad is at Apollo Hospital in India(even IJN doesnt have the specialties for this type of case). However, since the baby is too small, and his heart is not so strong for an extensive journey to India....doctor propose not to carry out with the plan...However, in Malaysia, the only one place to do the surgery is in Gleneagles Hospital, Penang. And..it is a private hospital. The cost.....very high.And , if it is done, there is very low chance for a successful operation.

At the end, all the doctors suggested to bring the baby home, keep on praying and asking from the Creator,the Almighty Allah that the baby is safe and have a longevity life. At the same time, pour him with loves and fondness, make him believe we are always with him.

How he is surviving until today? According to the doctor, Amjad now uses an alternative respiratory approach which he uses when he's in his mom’s womb. Doctor said all the babies will do so, and sooner or later, the alternative respiratory structure will shut down and that is the time for them to commit with heart for breathing. As for Amjad, he has to struggle once the alternative respiratory system is closed.

I am writing this entry with heavy tears on my face. Feel very pity with Amjad, and their parents of course. For 3 days past, I was with them, and they did lots of thing to Amjad…Solat hajat, Yassin recitation, doa selamat, kenduri, sedekah and everything…everything possible. Hoping that Amjad will be healthy like normal people….better to stop now, I will continue writing later…(very awful depressing)

And for you guys who are reading this blog, please…please pray for my little Wan Amjad Wafi, wishing that he will succeed in his struggle, InsyaAllah..


Please..please...please...please contribute..may Allah accept our doa....doa that Wan Amjad Wafi will be healthy like other kids out there..Please....