Cruise de' Penang

On de way to Penang Island..in ferry


Widaad is so sleepy, smpi duduk pon bole tido


On de deck...



The morning after....before sun rises..



My Small Family..



Widaad and Umaira:)



Ummi with Wafa'...Walid holding Widaad


Baca ye sayang...safety first...jgn lari suka ati jer...kang Walid tatau berenang...Ummi bole, tp taknak tunjuk skill la.....


My two little precious!


Ehemm...nak jugak posing sorang:)


lagak seorang captain kapal:)


bergambar dgn anak2 lagi chumil:)

Thank you Abah and Mak for the wonderful gift :) We went for the cruise last Chinese New Year. It was a delightful gathering even Najib's family (my younger bro) were unable to stick together. Her wife is waiting for a delivery day...

I was so shocked that they actually made a surprise party for me and Naziri (my younger bro) for our birthday. Thanks again Mak, Abah, and Kaklong!!! The one night trip on the cruise were such a memorable moment..I’d love to have it another time, more family trip like this. Yea….since married, it’s quite difficult for all us to gather..since each one is enclosed to different field of jobs that contributes to diverse leave days(see…Najib is not with us)….hoping that some other time, we could make a time to meet together.

However, being on the cruise ...for even one night ...WOwwww!!!speechless!!bestttttttt sangat!The cruise can fit in 6000 people at one time...so....big!!so wide...and so beautiful scenery (different angle of the scenery to be seen up there)..Ups...Abah and Mak, thanks for the treat!

Stories of my precious gift:)

She is gorgeous!!


Kakak solehah!



She is lovable!!

Amal Wafa' is now ready to try eating finger foods by grabbing the spoon when I fed her. Wafa' may have a good appetite but not many teeth, so I'd rather start with foods that she can gum or that will dissolve easily in her mouth.


She laugh!!


She look at me!!

For most new moms, the last priority on the list is the item called "me." Baby care, holding down a job, and running a household all tend to come first. But making yourself a priority is important because if we don't, running the rest of our life is all the more difficult. It's like trying to operate a car without gas.

Me and hubby, we are now still in learning stage. 24 hours may not been enough for us!!!Since we can't add hours to the day or night, we would try reassigning the ones we have. Now its time to set a priorities and decide what we can let go of. Are there volunteer positions that might take a break from, for example? Another way to find time is to figure out ways we could save minutes on day-to-day activities.

Most importantly, (luckily hubby doesnt mind)..I sometimes don't bother or set any worries if the neatness of my home isn't up to your previous standards! (Only those who have more than 1 kid understand this situation!!) You can't imagine that the house will turn out to be "messy" a minute after you tidy it....plus with the two little babies....However, I have to force myself to make it very hygiene since my little Wafa' is now actively in a stage of crawling and rolling over the floor. She uses all of her senses to explore and learn about her world. As an Ummi, I have to make sure she has lots of safe things around to touch, mouth, and manipulate.... She'll love squishing a soft rubber ball, patting a piece of fake fur, gnawing a chilled teething ring, and hearing a bell jingle inside a stuffed animal....And I, have to ..work out for the best, safe and most importantly, hygiene objects for her to play with.


She's smiling!!

Compared to Widaad, she is now big sis. She begins to understand when things don't conform to grownup ideas. She'll laugh at something that's obviously wrong — like calling a cow as cat or calling her Walid as Abang(she imitates me). She'll also notice when something isn't quite right, like an eye missing from her stuffed bear or a new stain on the carpet or even her lil sis diapers that is left outside the toilet.She'll directly sound to her Walid ..."BUANG...BUANG...eee...DIRTYY"...


Kakak mithali:)

Yet,me and hubby are probably still understanding less than half of what Widaad says, she's getting a handle on most of the words we use around her...Plus,she's also having a vocabulary spurt and putting together pairs of words, like "ambek remote" or "nak nenennn."And sometimes, she may reject thing as "taknak" (melaka slang) or "takmau"(kedah slang).And, we'll laugh to each other seeing her cute face saying those words.


She's cute!!

It's a very wonderful feeling to see with our own eyes, the babies development day by day:) Very nice feeling..very cool....:)And I am very proud to be in this stage with the support of hubby, though there are plenty of things that are yet to discover.


She is so adorable:)

ASB....HARUS or HARAM?

It is really difficult..to tell someone to leave something that gives benefit to the person, and it is more difficult…. if the benefit is money. No one wants to leave money. In fact, money is a sign of wealth. The more money you have, the wealthier you become.

There was two fatwa revealed by the authority about ASB. JAKIM mentioned as HARUS whilst JAIS said it is HARAM.As a layman, me myself who contributed to ASB would definitely choose to hold the HARUS one since I gained the profit every single year, never missed. And, it’s MONEY!!!who doesn’t want money?

Hubby, standing by another side, would choose the situation as HARAM. In Islam, when there are two “hukum” intersects each other, whether HARUS and HARAM, the results is that to choose the HARAM one.

Since we do not want any grey area in the development of the body cells, leaving it is a healthier decision. We believe what we take, use, do and eat today will affect us in future. We utilize money to buy things, food, and we use them daily. If the source is HARAM, of course that would affect one’s body.

Hubby once told a story of Imam Haramain (fuqahak mazhab). He never permits any food or money to come in his house to feed the family. And one day, the wife was sick, and the baby sitter fed their little baby with her breast milk. The Sheikh, knowing that, later than he went back from his work, lifted the baby up, and made until the baby vomited the breast milk.

One day, later, the little baby grow up, (he turned up to be a pious one, just like his daddy..his name is Imam Juwaini )while he is delivering kuliah, he stopped..trying to remember something. And, he said, “maybe because what I had eaten before this effect my memory today”…..Subhanallah..look how they really care what departs within their body. Just look how cautious and vigilant they are to locate an article as HALAL .

And we today, given the same brainpower to think, are too lazy to take a step. We tend to prefer something which formulates us through trouble-free, without bothering to have sense of consider, to observe carefully, to take extra watchful motion in order to be a better person. And this, in reality, is not complex, just move yourself, gain knowledge…The more knowledge you have, the better person you are going to be, and the more respect you will gain later. Me myself, am learning, and will continue learning. Just like in truth ..Knowledge is so very wide……… and Knowledge is Power.

As for ASB, TEPUK DADA, TANYA SELERA...:)Which one would you choose..the decision is all in our hands..:) Insyaallah...another room will be open once you close one room:)

KEMPEN HATIKU MILIKMU

“Mengimpikan Cinta Sesuci Embun Pagi”


Tarikh : 7 - 12 Februari 2010
Anjuran : BADAN DAKWAH DAN ROHANI (BADAR)
Dengan Kerjasama : Pejabat Hal Ehwal Pelajar Dan Alumni ( HEPA)

PENDAHULUAN


Cinta yang sebenar adalah cinta pada Allah dan Rasul. Segelintir dari kita pada hari ini masih tidak tahu apa itu cinta yang hakiki. Pada abad ini banyak berlakunya penzinaan dan budaya ‘couple’ sama ada di dalam kampus mahupun diluar kampus. Sehubungan dengan itu, BADAR yang merupakan satu-satunya kelab yang berteraskan Islam ingin menganjurkan kempen Hatiku MilikMu bagi memberikan info dan input yang sebenar mengenai cinta kepada seluruh warga kampus UTeM.


OBJEKTIF

1. Memberi kefahaman yang sebenar kepada mahasiswa mengenai cinta mengikut perspektif Islam

2.Menyampaikan dakwah kepada seluruh warga UTeM dan mengajar mahasiswa bagaimana cara bercinta belandaskan syariat agama Islam

3. Mengelakkan mahasiswa dari terjebak dengan perkara–perkara maksiat yang boleh menjatuhkan maruah diri dan universiti


SASARAN
3.1 Seluruh warga UTeM terutama mahasiswa UTeM serta masyarakat setempat.


BUTIRAN PROGRAM

TARIKH : 7 FEBRUARI 2010 (MAJLIS PERASMIAN)

: 8-12 FEBRUARI 2010 (KEMPEN)

MASA : 8.30 PAGI – 12.30 PAGI

TEMPAT : AUDITORIUM CANSELORI (MAJLIS PERASMIAN)

: KAMPUS INDUK, KAMPUS BANDAR DAN KOLEJ KEDIAMAN

ATURCARA MAJLIS PERASMIAN

8.30 pagi Pendaftaran peserta
9.30 pagi Ceramah
“Hatiku MilikMu” (Ust. Mohd. Najib b Khasim)
11.00 pagi Minum pagi
11.30 pagi Majlis Perasmian Kempen Mencari Cinta
Perasmi : Prof. Dr. Zolkepli bin Buang
12.00 tngh hari Makan tengahari dan bersurai


ATURCARA KEMPEN HATIKU MILIKMU


7 Februari 2010 Majlis Perasmian Kempen Hatiku MilikMu


8-12 Februari 2010 Edaran Risalah Hatiku MilikMu


Pameran Hatiku MilikMu di setiap kolej kediaman


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