who and what to be?

If children live with criticism,they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility,they learn to fight.
If children live with ridicule,they learn to be shy.
If children live with shame,they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement,they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance,they learn to be patient.
If children live with praise,they learn to appreciate.
If children live with acceptance,they learn to love.
If children live with approval,they learn to like themselves.
If children live with honesty,they learn truthfulness.
If children live with security,they learn to have faith in themselves and
others.
If children live with friendliness,they learn the world is a nice place in
which to live.

Copyright © 1972/1975 by Dorothy Law Nolte

Mommy and Daddy Will Always Love You

Dear Widaad,
For children are blessings
Sent from Allah
A precious gift heaven sent
An expression of God’s
the foundation of this love
May you truly grow
Discovering the truths of ALLAH


Dear Widaad....
Ummi and Walid can only colour you
Can only shower you with love
Can only guide you
Can only lead you


Dear Widaad.....
There is only one true God, that is Allah
Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah
Islam is acceptance of Allah's commands
and guidance as our creator
The Quran is the final book from God
Hold tight to the Quran and the Prophet's Sunnah
They will be a leader to bring people out from the darkness
into the light


Dear Widaad........
Worship Allah alone and submit to Him alone
Shahadah is the main pillar in Islam
It's a declaration of Muslim faith
Prayers are the second pillar in Islam
Followed by Fasting in the month of Ramadhan,
Paying Zakat and the
Last one is Pilgrimage to the Holy Ka'bah in Mekah.


Dear Widaad.........
This is Ummi and Walid's dedication
For our only Widaad Ibtisam
Enjoy thy live though it will not stay

Raya Celebrations!

Selamat Hari Raya from Widaad and family:)

mak tok ..takkan tgn kosong je....mana duit raya utk widaad?

Two couples with the new born babies:)

Widaad Ibtisam : Sape baca blog ni...kene bg duit raya kat Widaad:):)

I would be a millionaire this Raya..yey yey!

Walid, Ummi and Widaad:)

Mak is holding Humaira whilst abah is holding Widaad...At centre is my granny

My bro , Najib is not here since he went out with his friends already

Hubby is holding sweet little Widaad ..

Widaad and Humaira shake hands and wishing Selamat Hari Raya to each other:) (using their own unique language, perhaps)

Small family: from left; Kaklong, Abg Long and small cute Achmar Humaira!

My youngest bro, Naziri holding tight Widaad.... dlm poket tu duit raya widaad ke??

Mak and Abah...Mak pun dapat duit raya !!

Mak and Tok..."Ooo mak, cek mintak maap dari ujung rambut sampai ujung kaki naaa"

Only restricted to those married!

One family ...without in-laws

One family: with in-laws (but hubby is not here, since we took this pic early before Raya prayer: Hubby went to mosque earlier since he's reciting Khutbah Raya)

Yey yey! Tak cukup la tok abah satu sampul je!!

Tenkiu tok abah: esok satu sampul lagi ek!raya sebulan tauuu !!

Happy Hari Raya to all Muslims:) As for me, this is my first time celebrating Raya with my baby.Preparations for Hari Raya is not only for me and hubby, but also my sweet little Widaad.

It was my hometown to celebrate Hari Raya this year(we use take turn method). My family isn't as big as hubby's family. I have only 1 elder sis and 2 younger bros...Hubby on the other hand, has 8 siblings, he's the fourth. Me and my sis, we'd just get married last year and as for this year...both of us are having cute baby girls...:) And we were very lucky that both of us celebrate raya in Kulim, not at our in-laws house. .Complete one family!!

We snap on some photos early morning that day...just to ensure everyone is at home. After Raya prayer, of course, everyone would be very busy entertaining firends and relatives..then visiting the others.